I remember some years ago while watching the Indian film ‘Lajja’ (shame) I had this overwhelming feeling of frustration at both the reality and prospect that girls in India were treated with such contempt. I had the same feeling this week having browsed through the main reports derived from the Indian Census of 2011. The picture reads that in the age group of 0-6 years, there are 914 girls to every 1,000 boys. Translated this means that for every 1000 boys, there are at least 86 girls under the age of six who were killed before or after birth.
In an article that makes for a disturbing read, The Economist reports “if you compare the number of girls actually born to the number that would have been born had a normal sex ratio prevailed, then 600,000 Indian girls go missing every year.” Worryingly it goes on to add “if sex ratios stay the same, 600,000 missing girls this year will become, in 18 years’ time, over 10m missing future brides”.
So why is it that in a country where deities such as Lakshmi, Saraswati and Durga are celebrated are girls considered to be such a bad omen? Why when we have Pratibha Patil – President of India, Meira Kumar – speaker of lok sabha, Sonia Gandhi – Chairperson of UPA and ‘defacto PM’, Sushma Swaraj – leader of opposition in loksabha is gendercide so widely accepted in India? The two most quoted reasons appear to be poverty and a lack of education. Yet even in states where literacy levels have improved at rapid rates, states which are among the wealthiest in India – notably Punjab, Haryana and Gujarat – gendercide still dominates. In Patna alone last week 15 female foetuses were found in a jar left on a rubbbish dump. A statistic which is horrifying for any democratic society.
Dowry has also meant that having a girl makes no economic sense. My colleague Riaz Jugon makes a fair point when he says: “families who have girls spend their lives raising a girl and almost training and domesticating her to look after her husband and essentially her in laws when she moves out. In addition to this, the parents of the girl have to pay a dowry to the grooms family. So raising a girl for 20 years, and then paying a dowry only to see her leave and look after and live with another family doesn’t seem like a fair trade off. Having a guy, there is no dowry to pay, and a well trained daughter in law is gained.”
The anti-dowry laws of 1961 have clearly been ineffectual here. Some would argue this has just been lip service on the part of successive Indian governments, others would argue the impossible task of legal policy being able to eradicate cultural prejudice. And that’s where the problem lies – within the prejudice itself. Both Hinduism and Islam, India’s most dominant religions, revere women. Yet culture dictates the oppression of females in this one billion strong nation. But perhaps different religions foster different perceptions of women. Steve Peiris, a Buddhist by faith, says: ” We have a strong tradition of male-female equality. The “head” of my family is my Grandmother. Buddhism has always had an enlightened view on the role of women in society and Buddhist Sri Lanka voted in the world’s first democratically-elected female head of state in 1960. In my family, the equality thing seems to be linked to the religon which includes a “commandment” that whoever you are, whether King or pauper, “all must bow before the priest”. This sets up the concept of equality in Buddhist scripture. There is also no “original sin” in Buddhism as there is in other religions. Sri Lanka has a long tradition of ordaining female priests even where other branches of Buddhism frown upon it.”
There is clearly cultural and societal pressure at work. Even British Asian women like Sofia Ahmed feel like they not only need to produce sons to carry on the family name but because it gives them a social status amongst their community: “I have to say I am guilty of wanting to have a boy more than wanting to have a girl and I was super happy when I found out I was carrying twin boys, felt that it was a massive achievement,” she says.
Back on the Indian subcontinent although education is more widespread than ever before, it has not reached those who need it the most. Robert M Maciver in his infamous speech said ‘educate a man and you educate one person, educate a woman and you educate a whole nation’. If this is true of anywhere in the world, it is true of India. The girls that exist in India today need better education – of their religion; of their rights; of their opportunities and of their strengths. So that when tomorrow they have the chance to become the mothers of a future generation of girls, they don’t choose to abort their foetus; or strangle their baby; or let their husbands murder their daughters. They celebrate her arrival with the same zeal as that of their sons.
Hope is on the horizon however, female literacy has jumped from 53.6% to 65.4% in the last 10 years, yet still lags behind the 82% for men in India. And the 1991 reforms have changed things, albeit at a slower pace.
One question remains however: until India stops strangling its daughters by the millions, how can we sit here and legitimately label it a democracy?
Tags: durga saraswati, female infanticide, gujarat, haryana, Hindu, India, india census, lakshmi, literacy, muslim, patna, pratibha patil, punjab, robert m maciver, sonia gandhi, the economist









